bridegroom and the bride!

just remember someone told me that normally singaporeans place their love relationship or friendship first, then the last one is kinship! it is true as normally we spent most of our time outside with friends and seldom with family... isn't it very pity that when you have all the friends in the world and yet you dont have someone close, in the term of your family members and stuffs? sometime we need to make some allowance for our family or relatives, we need to make time for them...

i remember that my friend told me that she was a malaysian, and in malaysia she got a friend, one days a stranger walk by my friend's friend house and saw that my friend's friend was lying on his mum leg, and my friend's friend was around 30+ years old... that stranger mutter that he was so old and yet still lying on his mother leg watching tv, in another word, so old le still want your mum breast feed you... but my friend's friend reply saying that she was his mother, what wrong lying on her leg? and she dont mind and yet you mind and have comments... wow... it shows one thing, the kinship there is very strong... to them, kinship place first cause who know you the best? live together and take care of you? it is your family!

different people have different opinions!